2013年12月11日水曜日

Hi all :)


This is my first post so I'm little bit nervous ... :(

Okay, this is Shiori Asakura writing, and I guess it's better to introduce myself first, and then, I'd like to talk about first impression, which is what we are studying in class.

As I've mentioned earlier, my name is Shiori Asakura and I am originally from Hiroshima, Japan, and then, I spent three years in Switzerland because my high school was there. This is my high school ! (a picture below)


Can you see the clouds below the school buildings? It is amazing, isn't it? I really think I was very happy to be there. The region where my high school is located is called Leysin, and this area is famous for a ski resort. This is why I keep telling you guys I love snowboarding! There are another things I love; travelling, watching movies and dramas (ep. gossip girl) and taking naps. Speaking of travelling, I've been more than 20 countries and in this winter, I'm going to Paris! If you have common interests or hobbies, I'd love to talk to you about these!!

Some of you in Leadership class know me well from the previous section, and I am usually talkative (sometimes making too much noises in class ... ). People around me often think I'm very active and have no problem with meeting new people, but I do. Actually, I am very shy and I don't feel comfortable with talking to new people. I always do not know what to talk to them. But people don't think so because I am usually very talkative. THAT'S THE PROBLEM!

"Social Intelligence and the Biology of Leadership" from Harvard Business Review explains,"When you make an intentional effort to coordinate movements with another person, it is not only oscillators that fire. In such situations the brain uses other, less adept circuitry to initiate and guide movements; as a result, the interaction feels forced." After reading this, I realized maybe I was trying hard to make a good impression on those new people unconsciously and as a result, the whole conversation became unnatural and I felt tired after having conversations with them. It is maybe difficult for me to become naturally friendly to new people right now, but I think it is good to keep the function of mirror neutron in my mind and try to smile and nod while listening to other's speaking. I think it's a good start.

And now, I have many people I have never talked in this class, so it's a good opportunity for me to improve my communication skill. I'm very looking forward to talking to each of you! Bye!!

p.s. Can't wait the Christmas holidays!!




10 件のコメント:

  1. Hi Shiori*
    I like the photo of your high school! It's truly amazing that the building is above the clouds, like a world of fantasy:D
    I'm also not very good at talking naturally to a person I don't know, but hope we can learn lots more in the class about how to improve our communication skills which gives good impression to other people. So let's practice together!

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    1. Hi, Maya :)
      So sorry that my reply is this late.
      You think so? I'm really proud of my high school!! And I don't think you should not worry about taking naturally to people because at the first time we've met, you were so kind and nice to me :) I hope we'll improve our communication skills, too!

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  2. Hi Shiori :)
    I am glad to have you in the same English class again!
    I was surprised to see the picture of your high school, because I have never imagined having school in such a high place. I think it is very nice to study there!
    I can't wait the Christmas holidays too ;)

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    1. Hi, Miku :) Sorry for my late reply :(
      I am happy to have you in the same class, too! And yeah, you should visit Switzerland someday because it's amazingly beautiful as you see in the picture!

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  3. Hi Shiori,

    Thanks for this first post, and thanks for being so open and frank about your enthusiasm for talking. I look forward to hearing what you have to say, in our class and with this blog (writing is a kind of talking too).

    Ken

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    1. Hello, Ken! I'm very sorry that my reply to your comment is this late. And thank you for visiting my blog! I'm actually very happy to be in your RW class because every class we have discussion time and always have opportunities to talk to people including those I don't really know. I'm sure I can improve my communication skill in your class.

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  4. Hi, Shiori :)
    I think I never talk to you in the class yet, so nice to meet you!
    The picture of your high school looks really nice and beautiful! I imagine you had great time studying there :) So beautiful!
    I am looking forward to talking you you in the clas!

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    1. Hello, Moe :) Nice to meet you :) and sorry that I reply to you so late :(
      Thank you for making such a good comment on my high school picture! I really had a nice time there. I wish I could be there right now. haha. Anyway, I'm looking forward to talking to you too, and let's get in touch in class and also outside of the class :)

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  5. Hi!
    I was really surprised to see the picture of your high school! It is so nice.
    I am looking forward to talking with you about your trip in Paris. Have fun!

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    1. Hi, Sumire! Thanks for making a comment on my blog, and so sorry that I reply to you this late :(
      Yeah, my high school is located in such a beautiful place. Anyway, Sumire, I guess we didn't really have time to talk and I don't even talk about Paris to you yet!! I hope we'll have some opportunities to talk inside or outside of the classroom.

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